So like, I can't stop thinking about this. About the whole concept of getting your hopes up for things, people, events, etc. Certain little things happen and you start believing that what you want to happen might actually happen, but then you're like no, am I that special or lucky enough for things like that to happen to? Then you start imagining scenarios and all these what ifs and building up your happiness on this potential possibility. Hoping and having hope for this want that you don't know will happen is the hardest because you don't want to get hurt when those hopes you've build up for so long are shattered. So wouldn't it be best to stop hoping for things? To stop getting your hopes up about things you aren't sure will happen? To just not care? To just let the future happen? To just let everything be?
That's something I set for myself earlier this year, to just let things happen on their own. In terms of friends, in terms of relationships, jobs, etc. But hope for things that you're unsure about is what keeps me waking up with optimism in the mornings. The whole imagining aspect of hoping, of imagining your life if what you want were to occur; it makes me smile all over. It's hope for these things that makes happiness. The only hard part is taking that chance, that chance of getting hurt from these hopes in the event that they don't go the way you hoped for.
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